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On the Definition of Love...



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The definition of love is something I am still learning, but I know for sure that it does not hurt, it does not raise fingers, it does not abandon and it does not change. Love is pure and genuine, love is goodness and love is the reason behind everything good around us.

Love should not be exhausting.

Creating pain, hurt and negativity under the name of love is the worst and most unfair thing I have ever witnessed in this world.
We need to understand that harming others in the name of something so good is wrong. We need to stop running after needs when it includes pain for other people; stop manipulating others in the name of care and stop abandoning people in the worst ways just because there is an opportunity for us to.

Sometimes, we look highly and think highly of individuals just because we want to see the good in us become reflected on them, we want to see happiness and goodness, and we request it back from people who are not always able to give it.

Learn to give love because you are capable of giving love and not because you are expecting to receive anything in return. And if the love you gave does not get back to you the way you expected, never regret it. It will come back to you one way or another, nothing is ever wasted.

I believe that love is the greatest thing in this world, and although I don't quite understand it fully yet, I am sure that love given will always find its way back to you.

They say God is love, meaning that most powerful being behind everything is love itself, and if God is love, then love is behind everything that is good. I hope we have more faith in its power, even if it doesn't show all the time, it is there.




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